Girl Crush: Why I Like to Look At Women

Monday, May 21, 2012 10:12 AM


I like to look at women almost as much as I like to look at men.

To be a woman who appreciates the beauty and sensuality of other women is very natural.  I love being a woman. I love being the soft next to the hard. The gentle that eases the rough. I can appreciate the sway of another woman's hips because I love the way mine sway when I walk, when I dance and when I seduce.

When I look at a woman and try to see what a man sees, it deepens my appreciation of my own femininity.

It's taken me a long time to be able to articulate that. 

Pay attention to the feminine qualities that are attractive to you.   Further develop those things in yourself.  Find inspiration in women whose energy moves you. I'm always intrigued by women who have some level of exquisite awkardness and yet still radiate confidence and magnetism.    Transparency. Self-awareness.  How she moves, dresses, talks and interacts with others.  These are the things I notice and admire.

Now take a moment to think about what qualities distinguish you. 

No matter what rejection or criticism you have been through, remember that you are a goddess and you deserve adoration - particularly your own.  Put the days of wanting to be attractive merely for external validation behind you.  It's time to be bold and comfortable in your own skin and learn what makes YOU glow from the inside out - not just to attract attention - but to exude positive energy and to live an authentic life. 

You can learn a lot from studying women who know how to channel their mojo.   So tell me, who inspires you with their feminity/intelligence/sex appeal/fabulosity?  Who are your girl crushes?